Chatting and Messaging On Facebook

In the previous post we discussed how to get in contact with previous classmates, co-workers, etc. After you friend request them and they have accepted your request the next step is to communicate with them. This is where Facebook messaging comes in.

Users have two options of how to message a friend; you can either send them a private message or if they are logged on to Facebook at the same time as you are you can instant message them. Both have their advantages and differences, we will explain both. 

A first option is to send a private message to a friend. You and your friend will be the only ones who can view these messages. Using this format is advantageous when sending a lengthy message to a friend as it is almost like sending an email. Your friend will receive a notification saying that they have a message in their inbox. This is also a great way to send the same message to multiple friends. To private message you can either; go to your friend(s) profile and click message on the top right corner or you can click on the chat bubbles located at the top of the page as shown in the image above. Once you click the bubbles type in the name of the recipients of your message, enter your message, and finally press send.

This option also allows you to see all messages, where you can view all of the messages that you have sent or received in the past. Messages here can even be from your mobile device, where you can send and receive messages from as well. Attaching files, pictures, or videos is also available when sending a private message.

Other messages that are saved here are from conversations you’ve had during instant messaging, the second way to chat it up on Facebook. This way of this instant messaging is almost identical to AIM, the instant messaging service through AOL, only it uses just your Facebook contacts. This is more convenient than private messaging because it allows you to have more real time conversation rather than having to wait for a response when private messaging someone. You can start this process by looking at the bottom right of your Facebook screen where it says “chat.” Here you will see how many of your friends are on Facebook indicated by the number in parentheses. To message a friend click chat then find the friend you wish to message. Once you have done this start typing, press enter when you are finished, and wait for your friend to respond. Instant messaging is beneficial for being able to catch up with family members when they are away for school or for business, for asking quick questions, or just wanting to say hello.

If private or instant messaging a friend is not your cup of tea there is always the option of writing on a friend’s wall. To do this, go to the profile of the friend you wish to message and where it says “write something”, write something! You can also post pictures and/or videos on a friend’s wall. Messaging with friends on Facebook is an important and great way to communicate and allows you to stay in touch with anyone from around the globe!